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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 02:02

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

I said to her

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

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We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

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When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

What did i know ?

But ive been too sick for many years..

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But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

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And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

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Who then, do I blame.?

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

She loved him until the end.

So I’m getting piano lessons and my teacher wants me to get an upright piano instead of a keyboard. An upright piano is way above my price range, so what do I do? And what’s the difference between an upright piano and a keyboard?

I write beautiful poetry .

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

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I have no regrets .

Why did i forgive my father ?

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

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But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

My family never makes their pension either.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

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Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

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She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

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One cannot hold on to bitterness.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

I had hoped to write a book about this .

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

She found it foreign!.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

I was seconnd youngest,

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

She was in good health!

I couldn’t, believe it.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

So whats the point in blame.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

But it wasn’t much.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

I could never make a relationship work though!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

But, we were locked up after school.

And i lived it daily.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

So, i spoilt her more .

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Especially a lifetime of it.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

He resisted the act ,that day.

She married twice! .

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

I waited trembling.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

It was going to be , some day.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Im still living with it.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

She wouldn,t have been !

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

Ive learnt so much.

We were not on the streets..

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

Comes on , in middle age.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

I will be 64.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

When she asked me how she looked .

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

My life is so biszare .

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

All the time i was locked up.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

I was very sick at this time too.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

We all went to grammer schools

(And it was in our own minds.)

I was scared of men, in general

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

I was 9 years of age.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

This is soul school!.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

He knew the spot.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

On the 31st of Jan this month .

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Was to survive, this bastard.

I don,t even have a pension.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

My mum and dad in the seventies!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

Would this be the day?

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

I think the readers, may guess!

One cannot live in the past .

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

As i do to all so called friends.?

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Put me off passion for life!!

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I never cut or harmed myself..

And who doesn’t know suffering?

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!